SEND THE REAL MESSAGE.
How to send the message you have been avoiding.
The draft has been sitting there for weeks. Name the issue, offer a next step, press send. A hello does not count and neither does a draft.
THE CHALLENGE
Send the message you've been avoiding. Name the issue and propose a next step. A hello or an unsent draft doesn't count.
WHY IT'S HARD
The avoided conversation actually begins.
DO IT RIGHT
Choose a real situation with someone you know and trust. Never pressure anyone, contact strangers or share their reply. No real situation today means skip.
HOW IT WORKS ON HARD.
Everyone gets the same challenge on the same day. Say I'M IN, take as long as it takes, then say I DID IT on your word. Your friends see you show up.
ON THE RECORD
IT COMES BACK. NOBODY KNOWS WHEN.